Do you remember the Pirates of the Caribbean Queen Anne’s Revenge Hero Ship Play-Set we once had? We bought it in fall 2011 during a visit to Disney. You'd been looking it over a lot during previous visits, but it was awfully expensive.
Then I landed a little extra money editing and with a 10% discount on my Disney annual pass, decided "Why not?"
You were in the stroller and had to hold it the entire way back from Downtown Disney to the parking ramp because it wouldn't fit beneath it. You were so excited you couldn't stop looking at the box and gripped it hard so it wouldn't fall.
I lived in Encinitas at the time, and we put it together the following morning. It was huge - about 2-1/2 feet long and 2 feet tall. It included an escape hatch, a retractable plank, a mid-section that slid open, and a rotating crank. I recall a cool glow-in-the-dark skeleton that hung on the ship's prow.
We had lots of Pirates of the Caribbean action figures that we were able to play with it, too!
I have created this site so that my son, Kieran Edward Bignell, will be able to easily find me, his father, Rob Bignell, and so that he will know that I love him, that I always have, and that I always will. Against our wishes, we have been torn from one another's lives and kept apart, separated by distance and time. But one day, Kieran will seek me. Kieran - I am here for you. Come to me.
Friday, August 30, 2013
Thursday, August 29, 2013
Learn something new every day
Unfortunately,
I am not allowed to be with you each day, Kieran, so I am unable to lisen to
and talk with you about your concerns and problems. Because of that, I will on
occasion offer advice about moral codes to live by. Here is another such entry.
As we go through
life, we have a tendency to focus on a few narrow paths: our careers, our
immediate family, our college major, our community. Each of those areas certainly
is enough to keep us busy!
They may not be
enough, though.
Often we feel
unfulfilled because we do nothing but work, raise our kids, study a specific field,
live in one small area. We desire to get away from it all for a while. This is
necessary to keep our minds fresh.
We don’t necessarily
have to travel long distances or abandon all we find comfortable to reboot our
mental and emotional health, though. Oftentimes the solution is as simple as
learning a little something new every day.
Picking up new
knowledge also may be paramount to maintaining a job, family and community. With
new information, we can bring a different perspective to work problem,
parenting, and local issues. With new information, we can better adapt to new
situations because we’re no longer trapped by the notion of “But we’ve always
done it this way.” With new information, we’re better able to think creatively.
This all occurs because when we actively learn new stuff, our understanding of
how the world operates broadens. We gain an understanding that transcends our
everyday lives.
How can you
learn something new? It’s easy. Google a word. Open a dictionary to a random
page and find the first word you don’t know. Go someplace you’ve never been
before. Talk to someone who specializes in something you know nothing about.
Take a class. Listen to public radio. Attend a lecture. Read a book.
What new thing
will you learn today?
Wednesday, August 28, 2013
Remember that big St. Bernard stuffy?
When we lived in the grene house in Lancaster, you might recall that I had a couple of big pillows a large fluffy St. Bernard dog stacked next to the television in the living room.
Sometimes you way lay on the pillows and dog while watching television. Other times you'd play tackle the dog!
When we did football, "tackle drills," I'd place the the pillow beneath my knees so I'd beyour height for you to ram into.
The dog was a stuffy I got for your mother before you were born. She liked St. Bernards, and for a while we were putting together a mystery novel about a nurse whose St. Bernard solves murders that the nurse gets entangled in!
Sometimes you way lay on the pillows and dog while watching television. Other times you'd play tackle the dog!
When we did football, "tackle drills," I'd place the the pillow beneath my knees so I'd beyour height for you to ram into.
The dog was a stuffy I got for your mother before you were born. She liked St. Bernards, and for a while we were putting together a mystery novel about a nurse whose St. Bernard solves murders that the nurse gets entangled in!
Tuesday, August 27, 2013
Always stay physically fit
Unfortunately, I am not allowed to be with you each day,
Kieran, so I am unable to listen to and talk with you about your concerns and
problems. Because of that, I will on occasion offer advice about moral codes to
live by. Here is another such entry.
In
our modern times, most of us are spared the physical labor that our ancestors
had to endure just to survive. Machinery does the work instead, and many of us now
spend our days seated comfortably at desks. The result is many of us gain
weight and become physically weaker.
“So
what?” you might ask. “Less physically demanding labor sounds like a good
thing.”
That’s
true enough. We’re now free to pursue personal interests and have more leisure time.
Still,
there’s plenty of good reasons to stay physically fit by exercising, walking
and watching our diet.
Research
shows physical fitness reduces the risk of contracting debilitating diseases from
diabetes and heart ailments to various cancers. Each of these diseases can be expensive
to treat and can limit our ability to function even if we’re just sitting
behind a desk.
In
the short term, staying physically fit improves one’s mood. Exercise increases
production of endorphins, which in turn reduces depression. A brisk walk or
swim has been shown to boost your memory and ability to learn.
Regular
exercise also means you’re more likely to live a longer life. With strong bones
and muscles and not suffering from disease, your body will be able to recover
more quickly from illnesses and injuries that strike you in old age.
So
why not make a difference in your life right now and for the long-term by
lifting some weights, dancing, or even just stretching?
Monday, August 26, 2013
Remember our Disney figure sets?
During our many visits to Disneyland, we got into the habit of purchasing play figures of characters from Disney movies or rides. Usually six or seven came in a set, and there were at least a dozen sets!
One of them was the villains set (see pictures). It contained bad guys from various Disney movies.
Often these figures/characters became parts of other play sets! The Peter Pan pieces, for example, were part of our pirate toys while the Buzz Lightyear toys became part of our space toy collection.
Unfortunately, none of the figures had movable parts. Still, they stood upright quite well (better than our various action figures!) and were a lot of fun to play with anyway!
One of them was the villains set (see pictures). It contained bad guys from various Disney movies.
Often these figures/characters became parts of other play sets! The Peter Pan pieces, for example, were part of our pirate toys while the Buzz Lightyear toys became part of our space toy collection.
Unfortunately, none of the figures had movable parts. Still, they stood upright quite well (better than our various action figures!) and were a lot of fun to play with anyway!
Sunday, August 25, 2013
Our hike along the Sierra Alta Trail
Sierra Alta Trail, Aug. 25, 2010 |
The trail was about 6800 feet above sea level so nicely overlooked some canyons yet was shrouded by higher mountain peaks.
The trail was surrounded by greenery and very comfortable in temperature, a nice respite from the sandy, hot desert where we lived!
You got your own trekking pole for this hike. It was a brief enough trail that I let you walk it by yourself. You had a blast, though I had to keep telling you to wait up as you wanted to run ahead out of my sight!
Here's a whole bunch of pictures from our adventure!
Saturday, August 24, 2013
My email to you for Aug. 24, 2013
Here is the email I sent to you on Aug,. 24, 2013, in case you do not receive it.
Dear Kieran,
Dear Kieran,
How
are you today? I’m doing fine, though I miss you like crazy! I hope you’re doing
well and are having lots of fun during this last week of summer.
I so enjoyed our time together on Thursday! You’ve gotten
really tall and have quite the powerful swing when it comes to light saber
battles!
Your knowledge of the states as we put together the USA map
was very impressive, too! I really enjoy talking about all of the places we’ve
visited and hearing about all of the states you’d still like to see. I am
looking for a world map puzzle so we also can learn about countries and oceans.
While you’ve never been out of the United States, perhaps when you become 18 you’ll
want to travel overseas.
Teaching you how to play chess was a lot of fun, too! The
game is very complicated and will take a long time learn, but you're well on
your way by learning the names of the pieces, where they go on the board, and
how they move.
Building the ancient Egyptian city out of the craft blocks
was a good time, too. It looked just like some of the cities we saw when
visiting the Egyptian section at the Museum of Man in San Diego. I posted pictures
of our work online!
How did you like the book about the Titanic that you took home on Thursday? I remember reading to you
kids’ books at Barnes and Noble about the Titanic
and how much you enjoyed them. I thought you’d like that book!
I am so proud of you that you are about to enter first
grade. You will find it a lot of fun. Always do your schoolwork, even if it’s boring
or difficult, and you will do fine. In fact, you’ll find that that first grade
and school in general gets easier when you do your assignments!
One book I recently read that you might like is about going
to first grade. The book was called “First Grade, Here I Come!” by Nancy
Carlson. It tells the story of Henry, who after the first day of first grade, isn’t
sure how he feels about it. The teacher isn’t like his kindergarten teacher,
and the fifth-graders hog the monkey bars! Will Henry come to like being in
first grade? You will have to read the book and find out. When your mom takes
you to the city library, I bet you’ll find the book there in the children’s
section.
We next get together on Friday, Aug. 30 – just six days from
now! Let me know if there’s anything you’d like me to bring. I see your email “send”
button is not working again, as I haven’t received an email from you since Aug.
11. Perhaps you could have your mother help you with that. In any case, I have
saved all of my emails for you so that if there are any of mine that you do not
receive, you’ll be able to later read them.
Well, that is all for now. I love and miss you very much and
will see you on Friday!
Love,
Dad
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