Thank you for the wonderful time yesterday, Kieran! I had a lot of fun with you and am so sorry that we had so little time with one another.
I enjoyed our lunch - you made some very healthy food choices with the carrots! The IMAX movie did go a little long, but I think you still enjoyed it - I'll always remember how you grabbed at the stars in 3D.
We got a good start walking through the tropics section until the slivers from the tree bark - and at least now we can say we've been to a part of the zoo that many others never go to!
I'm glad you like your new jacket and all of the football stickers and cards, too! I shall have to look for some grape Jolly Ranchers!
Here's a whole bunch of photos from our adventure!
I have created this site so that my son, Kieran Edward Bignell, will be able to easily find me, his father, Rob Bignell, and so that he will know that I love him, that I always have, and that I always will. Against our wishes, we have been torn from one another's lives and kept apart, separated by distance and time. But one day, Kieran will seek me. Kieran - I am here for you. Come to me.
Showing posts with label visitation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label visitation. Show all posts
Sunday, October 20, 2013
Saturday, September 21, 2013
Great news for us, Kieran!
I am very excited today, Kieran! We now will get to spend more time with one another and go places other than the family center.
Our expanded time togther begins today! I will see you at 11 a.m. I have a fun day planned for us at an aquarium and also lunch at the Rain Forest Cafe.
We also will get to talk to one another by telephone each Tuesday night. Your mother will place the call to me between 6 p.m. and 6:30 p.m. The telephone calls will replace the emails that I send each Saturday.
I also soon will be speaking with your teacher and attending your school activities.
Do not worry, I will continue to write a daily blog post here until we finally are allowed to speak to one another each and every day unhindered. I also will continue to fight for your right to see and talk with me. The right will be slow in coming, I fear, but it will come.
I will see you at 11 a.m. later this morning! I love you!
Our expanded time togther begins today! I will see you at 11 a.m. I have a fun day planned for us at an aquarium and also lunch at the Rain Forest Cafe.
We also will get to talk to one another by telephone each Tuesday night. Your mother will place the call to me between 6 p.m. and 6:30 p.m. The telephone calls will replace the emails that I send each Saturday.
I also soon will be speaking with your teacher and attending your school activities.
Do not worry, I will continue to write a daily blog post here until we finally are allowed to speak to one another each and every day unhindered. I also will continue to fight for your right to see and talk with me. The right will be slow in coming, I fear, but it will come.
I will see you at 11 a.m. later this morning! I love you!
Saturday, September 7, 2013
My email to you for Sept. 1-7, 2013
Here is my email sent to
you Sept. 7, 2013, in case you do not receive it:
Dear
Kieran,
How
are you today? I’m doing fine, though I miss and love you like crazy!
I
so enjoyed my time with you on Thursday! We sure packed a lot into those two
hours!
You
certainly have a lot of energy, which is not surprising for a young boy,
especially one who’s a Bignell. All of the Bignells – my cousins and yours –
have a lot of spunk. Although I exercise daily, I must admit that all of the
karate, football, spinning and wrestling we did wore me out! You are very
strong and athletic, and I'm impressed!
I'm
so very glad that you enjoyed the volcano we made! There are more “kitchen”
experiments in the science kit, as well, including making a clock run with a
battery made from a lemon or tomato! We will have to do some of those in the
weeks ahead.
Putting
together the Bionicles was a good time, too. It brought back lots of great memories
of when we used to do that at Legoland or at my place in Encinitas. I hope you
enjoy playing with your new Bionicles!
I
enjoyed playing checkers, too. You really knew the rules well! When I was in
fourth grade, I was a master checkers player. I was so good that no one wanted
to play me because they always lost! So I turned to chess, but there were only a
couple of other students who knew how to play that. I think you’re going to be
a master checkers player, too!
Constructing
the puzzle map was fun as well. You did a great job of putting it together all
on your own while I worked on the Lone Ranger Lego kit, which I think is a
mound that scorpions live in – there’s a little catapult on it that you can
shoot the scorpions out of! Too bad we ran out of time to complete the puzzle
(or the Lego toy).
Say,
I don’t believe we looked at the football cards you received on Thursday. Which
players and teams did you get? Also, did you see the first pro football game of
the year on Thursday night? The Denver Broncos were playing the Baltimore
Ravens. You may recall that Peyton Manning now plays for the Denver Broncos. He
set a record by throwing seven touchdown passes in a single game! The Broncos
won 49-27!
What
books or stories did you read in school this past week? I read a neat book
about autumn called “Leaf Man” by Lois Ehlert. The book has pictures of leaves arranged
to look like a person – called Leaf Man – and traces his movement across the
landscape. It has a lot of cool pictures of Leaf Man in it.
We
next get together on Saturday, Sept. 14 – a week from today! Your mother and I
are still working out the times. We no longer have to meet at the visitation
center that we have been at since last winter. I have not yet decided what we
will do when we get together, but I have some ideas and promise it will be a
lot of fun!
I
look forward to seeing you then. I miss and love you very much! Be a good boy
in school this week!
Love,
Dad
Friday, September 6, 2013
I enjoyed our time together Thursday
I so enjoyed my time with you yesterday, Kieran! We sure packed a lot into those two hours!
As a young boy, you certainly have a lot of energy. I must admit, all of the karate, football, spinning and wrestling wore my out! You are very strong, and I'm impressed!
Putting together the Bioncles, playing checkers, and constructing the puzzle map were a good time, too! I hope you enjoy playing with the Bioncles at home!
I'm so very glad that you enjoyed the volcano we made, too! There are more "kitchen" experiments in the kit,as well, including making a clock run with a battery made from a lemon or tomato! We will have to do some of those in the weeks ahead.
Here are some pictures of our time together!
As a young boy, you certainly have a lot of energy. I must admit, all of the karate, football, spinning and wrestling wore my out! You are very strong, and I'm impressed!
Putting together the Bioncles, playing checkers, and constructing the puzzle map were a good time, too! I hope you enjoy playing with the Bioncles at home!
I'm so very glad that you enjoyed the volcano we made, too! There are more "kitchen" experiments in the kit,as well, including making a clock run with a battery made from a lemon or tomato! We will have to do some of those in the weeks ahead.
Here are some pictures of our time together!
Friday, August 23, 2013
Remembering our visit together
Kieran, Aug. 22, 2013 |
Your knowledge of the states as we put together the USA map was very impressive, too! I am looking for a world map puzzle so we also can learn about countries and oceans.
Teaching you how to play chess was a lot of fun, too! The game is very complicated and will take a long time learn, but you're well on your way by learning the names of the pieces, where they go on the board, and how they move.
Building the ancient Egyptian city out of the craft blocks was a good time, too. I posted pictures of our work online!
Saturday, August 17, 2013
My email to you sent on Aug. 17, 2013
Here is the letter I sent to
you on Aug. 17, 2013, in case you do not receive it:
Hi
Kieran,
How
are you doing today? I am doing fine though I miss you like crazy!
I am
so glad that you’re having a busy and fun summer. That’s what summers should be
about when you’re young.
It
was exciting to hear that you’re learning how to swim. That’s a very important skill
to have and a fun activity. I once knew how to swim, having taken swimming lessons
as a young boy when just a little older than you, but I almost drowned once.
Now when I go in the water I tense up and can’t swim or float very well. There
are many times I wish I could go swimming, though! Have you learned how to
float yet?
I also
am glad to hear that you’re working on the bicycle riding. Besides being great
exercise, it’s lots of fun to go whooshing down the street with the blow
blowing through your hair! What color bicycle do you have?
Going
to the zoos always was a favorite trip of mine, too. I like the jungle/tropics
section of the Minnesota Zoo. Como Park Zoo has changed a lot since I was a
little boy; in the 1960s, the animals were kept in small cages, but now they
fortunately are placed in environments that are more like where they would
actually live if in the wilds. What is your favorite part of each zoo?
The
Blue Jays should be a good baseball game. I think the Twins actually might be
able to win that one! Not that I should talk – two of my teams (The San Diego
Padres and the Milwaukee Brewers) actually are doing worse than the Twins. But
the Los Angeles Dodgers are in first place, and hopefully will make the
playoffs this fall! Who will you be rooting for to win the World Series?
Football
season also is about to start. Exhibition season, in which the players get to
practice by playing games that don’t count, already are underway. Adrian
Peterson says he plans to run for 2500 yards this year. Do you think he can do
it?
Thank
you for telling me that you enjoy seeing me. I know you do – we always have
lots of fun when we get together – but it was still nice to hear anyway! I
always enjoy being with you well. In fact, I am very excited because we will get
to spend time together every week for the next three weeks! Our next visit is
in just five days on Thursday, Aug. 22. We then get together on Friday, Aug.
30, and then on Thursday, Sept. 5. Is there anything you would like me to bring
this Thursday?
Well,
that is all for now. I miss and love you very much! I look forward to reading
your next letter and will see you on Thursday!
Love,
Daddy
Friday, July 12, 2013
We now get to visit every other week!
I am very excited about visiting with you today, Kieran! Beginning today, we get to see one another every other Friday!
I will bring some more "Star Trek" characters as you asked for last time, as well as some of our older toys and games and books that we have. And of course I'll bring some surprises, too!
Grandma Bignell also plans to bake some stuff for you, too, though I'm not certain what she has planned.
I also will be sure to ask you what you interested in to help guide my future purchases for us when we get together in a couple of weeks.
I will bring some more "Star Trek" characters as you asked for last time, as well as some of our older toys and games and books that we have. And of course I'll bring some surprises, too!
Grandma Bignell also plans to bake some stuff for you, too, though I'm not certain what she has planned.
I also will be sure to ask you what you interested in to help guide my future purchases for us when we get together in a couple of weeks.
Saturday, July 6, 2013
My letter to you for June 30-July 5, 2013
Here is my letter
from July 6, 2013, just in case you do not receive it.
Hi Kieran,
How are you doing? I’m doing fine, though I miss you like crazy! I
hope you’re having a good summer. It’s almost half over with – can you believe
that?
Is summer school fun? When you last wrote, you mentioned you were
learning about the presidents. Which president do you think is the best? One of
my favorite presidents is Abraham Lincoln. He led the country during a war. But
he is more famous for being honest. He always kept his word and promises. For
example, one day he was running his store when he realized that he’d not given
a customer all of her change, so he ran outside and gave it to her as she was
walking away down the street. He could have kept the money, and the customer
probably never would have known. But, as you know from school, one always
should be honest. Do you know which bill Abraham Lincoln’s face is on?
How is your bicycle riding coming along? I bet you can ride it
really well! Do you get to ride you bicycle in the park? I have a bicycle joke
for you:
A man was
standing on the street when a bicyclist collided with him, knocking him down.
“Boy, you’re
really lucky,” the bicyclist said to the man.
“That really hurt!”
said the man. “What do you mean I was lucky?”
“I usually drive
a bus,” the bicyclist said.
Did you get to see the fireworks on the Fourth of July? I am going
to see the fireworks tonight (Saturday) in Hudson. It is Booster Days here, and
there is a big festival. The fireworks are held over Lake St. Croix. I wish you
could be with me for the festival and fireworks.
Have you seen any movies this summer? I’ve been to “Star Trek” and
“Man of Steel” (the Superman movie). I remember when you were three years old,
and I told you the tale of how Superman came to Earth and grew up to become a
superhero. When I finished, you said, “Wow – that’s a pretty good story!” I
also want to see “The Lone Ranger” movie. What movies would you like to see?
I am still trying to work it out so we can see each other every
other week. This could begin as soon as Friday (July 12) if other people
involved in this decision agree to it. I am looking forward to being able to
see you more often.
Well, that is all for now. I miss and love you very much. Hopefully,
I will see you on Friday!
Best,
Daddy
Friday, June 21, 2013
Seeing you later today!
I am very excited to be able to see you again later today, Kieran! We will be together from 2:45 to 4:45 p.m.
I will bring some of the Star Trek Legos characters, and I also have some "Star Trek" spaceship models for us to put together. There are a few other surprises as well in the tote, as well as some old favorites!
I'm not sure which treat Grandma is mixing up in the kitchen for you. But I'm certain she'll have something yummy.
I'll see you later today!
I will bring some of the Star Trek Legos characters, and I also have some "Star Trek" spaceship models for us to put together. There are a few other surprises as well in the tote, as well as some old favorites!
I'm not sure which treat Grandma is mixing up in the kitchen for you. But I'm certain she'll have something yummy.
I'll see you later today!
Thursday, September 13, 2012
We finally get to see and communicate with one another!
Good news, Kieran! My attorney and I had a court hearing yesterday morning.
The court ordered that I be able to visit you once a month with the opportunity for new visits. We'll get to meet at Genesis II, a center in Minenapolis. There's no word yet on exactly when the meeting will take place, but if I have not heard by Monday, I shall follow up.
I also get to send you an email once a week. Your mother will have to set up an email for you, read it to you, and then type your reply to me. There's no word yet on exactly when we can start emailing one another, but if I have not heard by Monday, I again shall follow up. There's really no reason we couldn't start emailing one another today, after all.
I'm really looking forward to seeing you again! We have a lot of catching up to do.
The court ordered that I be able to visit you once a month with the opportunity for new visits. We'll get to meet at Genesis II, a center in Minenapolis. There's no word yet on exactly when the meeting will take place, but if I have not heard by Monday, I shall follow up.
I also get to send you an email once a week. Your mother will have to set up an email for you, read it to you, and then type your reply to me. There's no word yet on exactly when we can start emailing one another, but if I have not heard by Monday, I again shall follow up. There's really no reason we couldn't start emailing one another today, after all.
I'm really looking forward to seeing you again! We have a lot of catching up to do.
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