Good news, Kieran! On Thursday, in court we won the right to see one another more often! We now will get to see each other every other week.
We still will be limited to only two hours at a time, but the opportunity to see one another more frequently is better than what we've been forced to endure this past year.
Do not worry; I am continuing to stake steps so that we can see each other every week and to speak with one another each day, just as we used to be able to do when we lived in California. You are the most important person in the world to me, and I never will shirk from my responsibilities to you.
In addition, your mother also is required to email me each week about what is going on in your life and to read you the weekly emails/letters I've been sending. I will be checking with you to ensure that you know the content of those emails so that we know that those court orders are being followed.
I have created this site so that my son, Kieran Edward Bignell, will be able to easily find me, his father, Rob Bignell, and so that he will know that I love him, that I always have, and that I always will. Against our wishes, we have been torn from one another's lives and kept apart, separated by distance and time. But one day, Kieran will seek me. Kieran - I am here for you. Come to me.
Sunday, June 2, 2013
Saturday, June 1, 2013
My email to you for June 1, 2013
Here is my letter from June 1, 2013, in case you do not
receive it:
Dear Kieran,
How are you doing today? I am
doing fine, though I miss you a lot! I have very good news: We will be able to
see one another more often – every two weeks in fact. It may take a while to
get it all arranged, but soon we will get to visit one another every other
week. I’m very excited about getting to spend more time with you and about all
of the fun we will have.
How was your first week of first
grade? What did you learn about in your first week? Do you like your new
teacher? What is your new classroom like? Does your teacher have any fun field
trips planned for the summer?
I recall you telling me last fall about
learning how to ride a bicycle, but you had to put it off until spring. Have
you gotten out the bicycle and mastered pedaling and steering yet? When I was a
little boy your age, our local John Deere tractor shop also sold bicycles.
While the clerk was helping my dad, I got on one of the bicycles to figure out
how it might work. I started pedaling, and the bicycle took off through the
store! Zip it went past the shelves
of tractor parts. I didn’t know how to stop the bicycle, though, and crashed
into the front counter! After that, the store clerk always kept his eye on me
whenever I came into the store. By the way, don’t ever do what I did in the John
Deere tractor shop. Not only was it very naughty of me but my elbow hurt like
heck for the next week because it hit the hard floor.
Do you have any trips planned for
the summer, such as the zoo or the fair? I will be traveling around Wisconsin
promoting my book and researching hiking trails for my next one. Some of the
places I’m going to are: the St. Croix River, which has neat rock formations on
it; Big Manitou Falls, which is as tall as 16 houses stacked on top of one
another; and Lake Superior, which is one of the largest lakes in the world (It
would take days to drive around it!). I’m looking forward to going to all of
these new places but sure wish you could come with me to see them.
What did you get to do for
Memorial Day? Did you go to any ceremonies? Memorial Day pays honor to soldiers
and sailors who died in battle defending our country, and often there are
special programs at cemeteries and parks. You’ve had many ancestors and
relatives who served in the armed forces. Your Uncle George served in World War
II, which was the biggest war the world has ever seen. He fought in France and
Germany against the Nazis. Your Grandpa Ed (who you are named after) also
served during that war and played a very important role in it; you’ll have to
ask your mother to tell all about him.
How are your “Star Trek” Lego toys
holding up? Hopefully they haven’t come apart! If they do, maybe you’ll be able
to put them back together using the instructions I put in your bag. You always
can bring them with you when we get together, and I’ll help you put them back
together. I will bring some more character packets when we next get together
(June 21 at the latest), and hopefully we will get the Gorn!
Well, that is all for now. I miss
and love you very much and can’t wait to see you again!
Love,
Dad
Friday, May 31, 2013
Visiting L.A. Zoo four years ago today
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| Boy Contemplates Chimpanzees |
You were walking around quite well by this time, but the zoo with its steep inclines and crowds wasn't a great place to let you walk free. So I pushed you about in a stroller and then when we got to each animal, I took you out of the stroller and held you up so you can see them. I got my exercise that day!
You were really interested in the chimpanzees. Fortunately, there was a clear plexiglass window that you could lean against and watch the chimps - which you did for quite a while!
Here's a whole bunch of photos from our adventure!
Thursday, May 30, 2013
Spending Memorial Day at Disneyland
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| Kieran at Disneyland, May 30, 2011. |
I had just moved to San Diego, and when picking you up for the weekend, we went to Disneyland on Saturday and then drove along the ocean back to my place in Encinitas. Having just moved, I didn't have a lot of spare money, but since Disneyland was on the way between my place and your mother's, and since we had Disneyland annual passes, going there again on Monday made sense.
We spent a good amount of time in the morning at Fantasyland and then during the afternoon went over to California Adventure. I remember us seeing the Muppet 3D show and going on the Monsters Inc. ride.
Here's a whole bunch of pictures of us from our Memorial Day adventure!
Wednesday, May 29, 2013
Visiting the Birch Aquarium in San Diego
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| Whale tail sculpture fountain at Birch Aquarium. |
Afterward, we drove down the freeway to the aquarium. They had some neat sculptures there as well as a great view of the ocean on the aquarium's backside. We spent quite amount of time in the children's play area.
Afterward, we had lunch at the aquarium's cafe. And of course we hit the gift shop!
Here's some photos from our adventure!
Tuesday, May 28, 2013
Memorial Day weekend trip to Disneyland
Two years ago today, we spent the day at Disneyland in what would become one of many trips that summer to the theme park. Usually our visit began with a ride on Astro Blasters ("the Buzz Lightyear ride," as you called it) then a stop at the Star Traders (read "Star Wars") shop across the way. Then we'd head on over to Fantasyland for some rides, which almost always included the teacups. The afternoon would be spent at one of the playground areas, usually the Redwoods Challenge Trail in California Adventure.
This particular weekend, you got a Mickey Mouse dressed up as a jedi stuffie at the Star Traders store! The above picture was taken that afternoon at California Adventure.
Here's a whole bunch of pictures from our adventure!
Monday, May 27, 2013
Pictures from our May 24 visit
When we were together on Friday, you said I should put the pictures from our visit on my computer. I'm not quite sure I fully understand what was meant - Did you mean post them on Facebook? Maybe place the pictures on my desktop? Possibly post them here? Or just store them? My hope is that now that you have a computer that you might be able to see this site. At the very least, I know that soon you will be able to read and use a computer just as well as (probably better!) than an adult, and you'll be able to see these pages and learn the truth about what has happened. So, I've posted here a few of the pictures from our visit for you to see!
| The photo you took of me! |
| Winning the Scooby Doo game |
| Playing with Star Trek legos |
| Playing with micro cars |
| Enjoying Grandma's cookies |
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