I hope you're enjoying the day. I bet there's a big Valentine's Day party at school today!
Here's a Valentine's Day memory from when I as close to your age (in first grade). The weekend before our school Valentine's Day party, I was so excited about it that I took the valentine cards I was to hand out to my classmates and started filling them out in secret. My mom wanted so much to do them with me and was so mad - mainly because rather than useing the class list the teacher sent home, I just started writing names, misspelling a bunch of them and not making out cards for some of my classmates (I forgot they were in my class!). So my mom had to go through them, sort them all out against the class list, make me finish filling out cards to some and rewriting the names correctly on others!
I wish we were together for Valentine's Day! I love you!
I have created this site so that my son, Kieran Edward Bignell, will be able to easily find me, his father, Rob Bignell, and so that he will know that I love him, that I always have, and that I always will. Against our wishes, we have been torn from one another's lives and kept apart, separated by distance and time. But one day, Kieran will seek me. Kieran - I am here for you. Come to me.
Thursday, February 14, 2013
Wednesday, February 13, 2013
Early morning drive to your preschool
A year ago today you woke up in a hotel room in Santa Clarita! You'd spent the weekend with Jane and me (We were staying in Santa Clarita so we could visit sights in L.A.), and we had to get you to preschool because Monday had arrived!
While I went down to get us all breakfast, Jane woke you up. I came back and got you all washed up, and we enjoyed some muffins and juice (well, I enjoyed coffee) while Jane got ready. While I loaded up the car, she dressed you for school. You looked like the coolest kid that day in preschool!
On the drive to Lancaster, you fell asleep in the car. We had to get up really early because your school was an hour's drive away! When we left, the sun was just beginning to come up.
After dropping you off at school, Jane told me what a great little boy you were and how much fun she had with you. I think she felt like the luckiest woman in the world that morning.
I know I certainly felt like the luckiest man, for I had a great girl friend and the best son one could ever wish for!
While I went down to get us all breakfast, Jane woke you up. I came back and got you all washed up, and we enjoyed some muffins and juice (well, I enjoyed coffee) while Jane got ready. While I loaded up the car, she dressed you for school. You looked like the coolest kid that day in preschool!
On the drive to Lancaster, you fell asleep in the car. We had to get up really early because your school was an hour's drive away! When we left, the sun was just beginning to come up.
After dropping you off at school, Jane told me what a great little boy you were and how much fun she had with you. I think she felt like the luckiest woman in the world that morning.
I know I certainly felt like the luckiest man, for I had a great girl friend and the best son one could ever wish for!
Tuesday, February 12, 2013
Our trip to cowboy museum, L.A. Zoo
One year today we took a trip with Jane from our Santa Clarita motel to the Autry National Center of the American West and to the Los Angeles Zoo at Griffith Park in L.A. While you and I had been to both places lots of times before, this was Jane's first big visit to California, so we had a grand time showing her around.
At the museum, we spent a good amount of time playing on the Old West set (a picture of the area where you can apper in a film is shown here). Then we had fun playing in the bungalow house and the Chinese restaurant in the museum's lower level. You made Jane and me "lunch"!
After that, we went to the zoo, where we we saw flamingos, gorillas, zebras, giraffes, tortoises, chimps and spent some time at the playground.
Here's a whole bunch of pictures from our grand adventure.
At the museum, we spent a good amount of time playing on the Old West set (a picture of the area where you can apper in a film is shown here). Then we had fun playing in the bungalow house and the Chinese restaurant in the museum's lower level. You made Jane and me "lunch"!
After that, we went to the zoo, where we we saw flamingos, gorillas, zebras, giraffes, tortoises, chimps and spent some time at the playground.
Here's a whole bunch of pictures from our grand adventure.
Monday, February 11, 2013
Our big weekend in Santa Clarita
A year ago today (Feb. 11, 2013), we spent the weekend in Santa Clarita staying in a hotel with Jane. We had a grand old time playing "Star Trek" with one another at the hotel, which had doors opening to the outside and was on two levels. You and I snuck around the floor and down the stairs looking for Klingons as we played with our phasers.
That evening, we went to Buca di Beppo Italian Restaurant where the three of us enjoyed a big Italian meal of lasagna and your favorite, tiramisu. You might remember that we had a long wait, but you and Jane (who you'd just met for the time the night before though you'd spoken several times with her on the phone) got along swimingly and kept each other entertained. Watching you guys get along so well was a lot of fun for me!
One of my favorite photos ever was one taken of the three of us at the dinner table - you made the silliest face for it! The photo on this posting is the seocnd photo taken in the series; I have to unpack the actual photo and get it scanned in one day.
That evening, we went to Buca di Beppo Italian Restaurant where the three of us enjoyed a big Italian meal of lasagna and your favorite, tiramisu. You might remember that we had a long wait, but you and Jane (who you'd just met for the time the night before though you'd spoken several times with her on the phone) got along swimingly and kept each other entertained. Watching you guys get along so well was a lot of fun for me!
One of my favorite photos ever was one taken of the three of us at the dinner table - you made the silliest face for it! The photo on this posting is the seocnd photo taken in the series; I have to unpack the actual photo and get it scanned in one day.
Sunday, February 10, 2013
Recall your Imaginext space robot?
Do you remember your Imaginext space robot? It was a toy you had as a preschooler when we lived in the green house in Lancaster.
It was a tall figure in which you could place an astronaut who then would manuever the robot around, usually when exploring a planet!
Typically we played with this space robot when playing with the Imaginext space station. Our astronaut in his robot suit would go out and exploring only to be attacked by a space alien! Sometimes our astronaut won, sometimes he didn't.
It was a tall figure in which you could place an astronaut who then would manuever the robot around, usually when exploring a planet!
Typically we played with this space robot when playing with the Imaginext space station. Our astronaut in his robot suit would go out and exploring only to be attacked by a space alien! Sometimes our astronaut won, sometimes he didn't.
Saturday, February 9, 2013
My email to you on Feb. 9, 2013
Here is a copy of email sent to you on Feb. 9, 2013, in case you do not receive it.
Hi Kieran,
How are you doing today? I’m doing fine, but I miss you very
much! I wish we could spend the day together. Unfortunately, I did not receive
the response to my email, though. Please have your mother resend it, along with
your emails from the previous six weeks that have yet to arrive. I also would
like to see your report card, so please make sure that comes with your email.
If your mother is unable to send emails, perhaps she could simply snail mail
your responses to me. I look forward to reading them!
What are you learning about in school? The last you told me,
you were studying letters and the sounds they made; I think you were up to the
letter “L”. I bet by now you are up to the letter “S” or “T”. You are in a very
smart class – when I went to school, we didn’t learn letters and their sounds
until first grade!
What kind of math stuff are you learning? In kindergarten,
we learned how to count to 10 and about shapes. But I taught you to count and
about shapes long ago, so I bet you must be learning something different now –
either that or you must be finding you math class very easy!
You also said you were studying the solar system. Did you
know that in just a few weeks something from the far reaches of our solar
system will light up our skies? In mid-March, we should be able to see a comet
at sunset. On March 12, look to the west where the moon will be. Then look to
the left of the moon. The comet will look like a streak of white cloud.
Hopefully March 12 won’t be cloudy!
Have you read any good books lately? I finished editing the
book in which the mean captain stole his old submarine in San Diego so that no
one else could go on it. But another guy sneaked on board the submarine and
stopped him! The submarine was returned where it belonged.
Another good book I have read is “The Biggest Valentine Ever,”
by Steven Kroll. It’s about two mice, named Clayton and Desmond, who decide to
make a valentine for their teacher. But they start arguing about how to make
the valentine! Will they ever be able to get along so they can finish the
valentine? You will have to read the book and find out. I bet either your
school or city library has the book.
I have purchased some card games, like Old Maid and Go Fish,
that you asked if we could play the last time we are together. We next get time
we get together, on March 1, I will bring them. I’ll also bring the fun sticker
board game we had with the rooms and family. I also have that replacement
birthday present for you!
That is all for now. I love and miss you very much! Happy
birthday on Feb. 23!
Love,
Dad
Friday, February 8, 2013
Our 'Six Million Dollar Man' DVDs
I have been spending the last few nights watching old "Six Million Dollar Man" episodes on DVD. I'm up to season 4, having started to watch the show when we were still together in the green house in Lancaster.
You were utterly fascinated by the box that the DVDs came in. Besides having a hologram on the top of the box that showed the Six Million Dollar Man running toward you, when you lifted the lid a recording went on that recited the show's opening words: "Steve Austin, astronaut, a man barely alive...(etc.)" You loved to open that lid again and again and puzzled over exactly how words could come from a box!
One other "Six Million Dollar Man" memory I have of you: Whenever the opening sequence ran, there are a couple of seconds where a doctor, with his back turned to us, is watching Steve Austin run on a set of monitors. You'd always ask, "Who is that guy? Why is he doing that?!" and get really exasperated by it!
You were utterly fascinated by the box that the DVDs came in. Besides having a hologram on the top of the box that showed the Six Million Dollar Man running toward you, when you lifted the lid a recording went on that recited the show's opening words: "Steve Austin, astronaut, a man barely alive...(etc.)" You loved to open that lid again and again and puzzled over exactly how words could come from a box!
One other "Six Million Dollar Man" memory I have of you: Whenever the opening sequence ran, there are a couple of seconds where a doctor, with his back turned to us, is watching Steve Austin run on a set of monitors. You'd always ask, "Who is that guy? Why is he doing that?!" and get really exasperated by it!
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